The Refugee Dream
Noela Rukundo thought she had escaped the darkness. A refugee from Burundi she built a sparkling new life in Australia with a stable job and a loving home. She believed her days of suffering were over.

The Refugee Dream
Meeting Kalala
She met Balenga Kalala at a resettlement agency. He was a fellow refugee who spoke English and translated for her. He was charming sweet and promised to protect her.

Meeting Kalala
The Blended Family
Kalala accepted her five children from a previous marriage as his own. They married and had three more children. To the outside world they were the perfect success story.

The Blended Family
The Mask Slips
But behind closed doors the dream was cracking. Kalala worked hard as a forklift operator but at home he could be violent. He would scream and get physical over small things.

The Mask Slips
The Cycle of Abuse
After the rage he would beg for forgiveness claiming his trauma from the war made him snap. Noela always forgave him. She wanted to keep her family together.

The Cycle of Abuse
The Tragic News
Then a call came from Africa. Noela’s stepmother had died. She had to return to Burundi for the funeral. Kalala couldn’t go because of work so she packed to travel alone.

The Tragic News
The Goodbye
She kissed Kalala goodbye. He seemed so concerned. He told her to be safe. She had no idea that the man hugging her was sending her into a deadly trap.

The Goodbye
Return to Burundi
Noela traveled 7500 miles. The funeral was emotional. Afterward she checked into a hotel in Bujumbura. She was exhausted and grief-stricken.

Return to Burundi
The Check-In Call
She missed her husband and called him for comfort. He asked how she was. Then he said something strange: ‘You sound tired. You should go outside and get some fresh air.’

The Check-In Call
The Specific Order
It wasn’t a suggestion; it was an instruction. Trusting him she stepped out of the hotel gate. The street was dark. She was alone.

The Specific Order
The Ambush
Instantly a man stepped out of the shadows. He didn’t ask for money. He pointed a gun directly at her ribs. The trap was sprung.

The Ambush
The Threat
Don’t scream’ the man hissed. ‘If you scream you are dead. Get in the car.’ A vehicle pulled up. Noela was shoved inside sandwiched between two armed men.

The Threat
The Blindfold
They blindfolded her. The car drove for 40 minutes into the bush. Noela sat in darkness praying for her children wondering who would pay to kidnap a mother of eight.

The Blindfold
The Destination
The car stopped. They dragged her into an abandoned building and tied her to a chair. The smell of dust and fear filled the room.

The Destination
The Interrogation
The leader spoke: ‘What did you do to this man? Why does he want you dead?’ Noela was confused. ‘Which man?’ she cried. ‘I don’t have enemies!’

The Interrogation
The Mockery
The kidnappers laughed. ‘You are stupid’ they said. ‘How can you not know? It is your husband.’ Noela stopped breathing.

The Mockery
The Denial
Impossible’ she whispered. ‘Kalala loves me. He would never.’ She accused them of lying. To prove it the leader pulled out his phone.

The Denial
The Call Home
He dialed a number and put it on speakerphone. Noela listened hoping to hear a mistake. Hoping to hear a stranger. But the voice was undeniable.

The Call Home
The Confirmation
Do you have her?’ Kalala’s voice asked. It was the voice she woke up to every morning. ‘Yes we have her’ the kidnapper replied.

The Confirmation
The Death Sentence
What do you want us to do?’ the hitman asked. Kalala’s answer was cold and immediate: ‘Kill her.’

The Death Sentence
The Collapse
Noela passed out. The betrayal was physically painful. The father of her children wanted her erased from the earth.

The Collapse
The Awakening
When she woke up the kidnappers were staring at her. ‘We don’t kill women and children’ the leader said. In a miracle of fate the hitmen had principles.

The Awakening
The New Plan
They hated Kalala for ordering his wife’s death. They decided to keep the money and save the wife. ‘We will tell him you are dead’ they promised.

The New Plan
The Extortion
They called Kalala back. ‘It is done’ they lied. Kalala was delighted. He wired them an extra $3400 for ‘doing a good job.’

The Extortion
The Evidence
They kept Noela for two days. Before letting her go they gave her a memory card. ‘Here are the recordings’ they said. ‘And the receipts.’

The Evidence
The Release
Go back’ they said. ‘Tell other stupid women what happened.’ They dropped her on a roadside. She was alive but her life was destroyed.

The Release
The Secret Return
Noela called her pastor in Melbourne. ‘Do not tell anyone I am alive’ she begged. She flew back to Australia a ghost returning to haunt her killer.

The Secret Return
The Widow Act
Back in Melbourne Kalala was playing the grieving widower. He told the community Noela died in a tragic accident. He accepted donations and comfort.

The Widow Act
The Funeral
February 22 2015. Kalala hosted a memorial service at their home. He cried crocodile tears while Noela sat in a car outside watching him perform.

The Funeral
The Stakeout
She waited until the last guest left. It was 7:30 PM. Kalala walked the mourners to their cars. Finally he was alone on the porch.

The Stakeout
The Approach
Noela walked up the driveway. Kalala saw a figure in the dark. He squinted. Then his eyes went wide. He stumbled back as if he had seen a demon.

The Approach
The Touch
Is it really you?’ he stammered. He reached out to touch her. He expected his hand to go through a ghost. But he felt warm flesh.

The Touch
The Terror
He jumped back screaming. ‘I am sorry!’ he yelled falling to his knees. ‘It was the devil! The devil made me do it!’

The Terror
The Cold Truth
Noela stood tall. She didn’t accept his excuse. She had the recordings. She had the receipts. She had the police on speed dial.

The Cold Truth
The Arrest
Police arrived. They ordered Kalala off the property. Later on a recorded call he confessed everything. The mask of the grieving widower was ripped off.

The Arrest
The Justice
Kalala was sentenced to nine years in prison. The community was shocked. The man they comforted was a predator. Noela had exposed the wolf.

The Justice
The Backlash
Shockingly some in the community blamed Noela for jailing the father of her children. They ostracized the victim. But she didn’t care.

The Backlash
The Strength
She raised her eight children alone. She refused to be broken. ‘My past life is gone’ she said. ‘I am starting new.’

The Strength
The Survivor
Noela Rukundo is the woman who attended her own funeral. She proved that the truth is more terrifying than fiction. She is not a victim; she is a warrior.

The Survivor